India’s Democracy Empowers Women

India, like a book, offers myriad topics for discussion in democracy. Its ability to maintain peace within its borders while empowering its women and youth, especially in the digital and technology sector, is a testament to its resilience and adaptability. There is much to learn from India's journey, marked by diversity, empowerment, and a steadfast commitment to national identity and progress. All on the foundation of a strong democracy. 

Additionally, India's strong foreign policy, rooted in the nation's interests and commitment to pluralism, serves as a valuable lesson for other countries. Its unwavering stance on preserving its cultural heritage and values sends a powerful message - a nation's identity is non-negotiable. This steadfastness not only strengthens India but also commands respect from the international community. 

During my time as a student in Sweden, I had the pleasure of interacting with many Indian classmates, particularly the girls, who left a lasting impression on me. Their empowerment was palpable—their voices strong, their visions clear. They have a vision for their future. They not only advocate for themselves but also stand up for others. In our debate classes on peace and development, India often took centre stage due to its vast population and diverse cultural landscape. Despite the challenges, India has successfully maintained peace and harmony among its diverse communities—a feat worthy of admiration and reflection of its thriving democracy.

I recall reading about Indra Nooyi, who became India's first female CEO in 1981—a remarkable achievement at a time when nations like Iran and Afghanistan were going through tumultuous times. Today, witnessing the empowerment of girls and women in India, both within the system and in their families, is truly inspiring. From thriving businesses to flourishing educational institutions and the dynamic fashion industry, India sets a shining example for nations striving to establish their identity and presence on the global stage.

One of the shining examples is the Miss Universe Harnaaz Kaur Sandhu from India. One of my favourites, Harnaaz’s beauty and confidence shines through. Her work for women, inspired by her gynaecologist mom, is remarkable. Stories like hers inspire Afghan women, much like the achievements of Indian sprinter Dutee Chand and Afghan sprinter Kimia Yousufi, our first Olympian. Indian cricket Smriti Mandana and Afghan women footballers from Ayenda FC ("future" in Dari) are also inspiring examples. As a person of Afghan origin, I can tell you that we are inspired by Indian women. Direct messages from successful and influential Indian women can shape young minds and empower Afghan girls. We need their voices to ring louder, to wash away outdated thinking and pave the way for a brighter future. 

In the annals of Afghanistan's history, democracy is not a foreign concept. Dating back to the 1940s, 60s, and 70s, the country boasted flourishing democratic norms. During this era, women held significant positions in various spheres, including education, fashion and the workforce, enjoying independence. However, the political landscape underwent a seismic shift over the ensuing years, primarily due to prolonged conflict spanning four and a half decades. This period of turmoil resulted in the erosion of the identity of Afghan nationals, affecting individuals across all demographics, from children to youth, and from men to women. The devastating impact of war left an indelible mark on Afghan society, robbing its citizens of their sense of self and agency.

Through the challenging times, Afghanistan’s relationship with its neighbour Pakistan has been complicated, to say the least. Despite sharing a close border and hosting Afghan refugees, Pakistan's actions have often fueled instability in Afghanistan. Like a toxic plant in the garden, sucking up energy from other plants for its own growth, Pakistan has continuously hindered Afghanistan’s growth. Pakistan's rivalry with India and Afghanistan has led to toxic competition, causing immense harm to Afghanistan. In addition to providing refuge to the Taliban since the 90s, 

Pakistan’s outright support for Taliban in 2021, when the latter usurped peace in Afghanistan, was especially disheartening for us. Afghan women lost their rights overnight, with schools closed and businesses shuttered; and Pakistan justified this repression as Afghan culture. This incorrect statement worsened the ties. Afghans now see Pakistan as the true villain, disrupting peace not only in Afghanistan but also in neighbouring countries like India and Iran. As Pakistan's actions continue to be self-destructive, it's time for them to reflect on their role in destabilising the region.

In contrast, Afghanistan’s bond with India runs deep, rooted in centuries of shared history and culture. This connection didn't begin recently but has evolved over centuries, forming a special bond between our nations and its people. Despite Afghanistan facing challenges in developing a fully-fledged democratic system, both countries made significant progress in the form of baby steps in building bilateral cooperation. As a neighbour and friend, India's contributions to Afghanistan are visibly substantial, from iconic projects like the construction of the parliament to investments in education and healthcare. Thousands of Afghan students benefit from Indian scholarships, and Indian doctors are highly trusted for their expertise.

Furthermore, India has played a crucial role in Afghanistan's security, providing valuable intelligence and support. Unfortunately, there are external forces that seek to undermine this friendship, creating mistrust and threats. However, there is hope for the future, as both nations recognise the importance of strengthening their ties. With time and concerted efforts, the friendship between India and Afghanistan can continue to flourish, benefiting both countries immensely.

The camaraderie between the Afghan and Indian cricket teams is another reflection of the warm relationship between the two countries. Indian cricketers and audience cheering for the Afghan team in the Cricket World Cup 2023 and vice versa, signify a special bond that transcends borders. I’ve witnessed the genuine connection and friendship between Afghans and Indian people even on social media. As we strive for lasting peace, I believe this relationship will only strengthen with time, blossoming into something even more beautiful.

Reflecting on Afghanistan's tumultuous journey, democracy emerges as an anchor of hope and restoration - an essential facet of the nation's identity that has been tragically lost amidst the ravages of war. Democracy is the second name of positive peace. Currently, there’s no war in Afghanistan, but is it really peace? A positive peace is inclined with a democratic system, because it allows citizens to find their identity, participate in decision-making, and contribute to the development of cultural and religious narratives that define their collective identity. For a country to progress in today’s world, embracing democracy is paramount.

A way to understand the importance of democracy is to imagine this scenario: You're at home with your family, trying to decide what to cook for dinner; Everyone gets a chance to share their preferences, leading to a mutual decision on the meal. Similarly, in a country, where citizens have a say in decision-making, trust is fostered between the government and the people. This trust forms the foundation of democracy, which varies from one nation to another based on its unique culture and values. In Afghanistan, for instance, democracy must be tailored to its specific context rather than adopting a one-size-fits-all approach from elsewhere.

In India, women have played a crucial role in its post-19th-century progress, contributing significantly to its growth. With over 91% literacy rate among women, their active participation in various fields has propelled the nation forward. Conversely, in Afghanistan, where nearly half the population comprises women, they face suppression and lack basic rights. The Taliban's restrictions on girls' education hinder the country's development. 

While the Taliban may talk about economic growth, their actions don't align. Schools are closed for girls above 10, depriving them of essential opportunities. To truly learn from India's example, the Taliban must prioritise girls' education, as emphasised by India’s Prime Minister Narendra Modi's call to build schools for girls.  Narendra Modi in one of his statements said “I don't want these expensive gifts for myself. If you want to do something, build a school in your area for the girls, let your girls go to schools.” It is crucial to understand how powerful that statement is. This simple yet powerful step is crucial for a country's progress.

The Taliban's imposition of a strict dress code on Afghan women echoes the suppression seen in Iran. This backward mindset can be termed as "jahiliyat." It not only stifles women's freedom but also threatens Afghan culture. By restricting women, they aim to erase our history and culture. But Afghan women are resilient. We've carried our culture for centuries, and we won't let it be erased by an imposed black burqa. This isn't our culture or that of Islam. It's a feeble attempt by a group of men to suppress empowered women. Just like in Iran, Afghan women are pushing back to bring change. 

I've noticed a powerful unity among women in India—they may pursue diverse paths, but they speak with one voice. In Afghanistan, while we have dedicated activists, unity within our community is lacking. To truly inspire change and empower our girls, we must unite around a common goal: education, rights, and individuality for women. There are several Afghan women rights activists voicing the atrocities of the Taliban and creating awareness. If these women, who are doing significant work individually, were to join forces, our impact would increase exponentially. I hope both Indian and Afghan activists learn the importance of unity and collaboration, amplifying our message and driving real change for the women in Afghanistan.